April 19-21, 2024
HOTTEST INTIMACY
RETREAT
Dear Beautiful Souls,
Are you ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and sexual empowerment? Join us for an unforgettable 3-day immersive retreat in the heart of Chicago, from April 19th - 21st, where we'll explore the depths of sensuality, ignite the flames of curiosity, and unleash the power of your inner fierceness!
Don't Miss Out! Register TODAY!
We are creating an intimate container for you to explore the thoughts, feelings, and emotions that arise as you dive into your inner self-discovery. The experience will be uniquely yours and celebrated in this small group setting.

SEXUALITY & INTIMACY RETREAT
INDULGE IN A SENSUOUS HAVEN
Our carefully curated retreat is designed for women who are eager to explore the intricate tapestry of their own desires. At StellaWinstonLife™, we believe that every woman deserves to embrace her sexuality with confidence, authenticity, and unapologetic passion.
SEXUALITY & INTIMACY RETREAT
IGNITE YOUR CURIOSITY
Dive into a world of knowledge and empowerment with our expert coaches, each specializing in unique aspects of women's sexuality. From enlightening discussions on the art of self-pleasure, navigating the world of erotica, to addressing and healing sexual trauma, our sessions are tailored to elevate your understanding and confidence.

OUR AGENDA
This 3-day immersive sexuality and intimacy retreat is a celebration of empowerment! Let go of inhibitions, shed societal expectations, and embrace the freedom to be YOURSELF. Our safe and inclusive environment encourages open dialogue, ensuring that every woman feels heard, understood, and supported in her journey towards sexual empowerment.
Adventure Awaits
In addition to transformative sessions, we invite you to embark on an empowering adventure to Kings' Spa on Saturday, where relaxation and rejuvenation take center stage. Immerse yourself in the luxurious surroundings as you engage with fellow fierce women on this liberating journey.
Culinary Delights
Indulge your senses with the Aphrodisiac Delights of our personal chef, Chef Kimber Dean. Nourish your body and soul with exquisite meals crafted to enhance your overall experience and aperitives that will ignite your sensuality! After all, the path to passion begins with taking care of yourself inside and out.
Mind-Body Connection
Explore the enchanting world of mind-body connection with our exclusive sensual yoga practice. Your practice will transcend the physical, awakening your senses and inviting deeper connection to your body's natural rhythm. Through intentional movements, breathwork, and mindfulness, our sensual yoga sessions will help you tap into your inner wellspring of vitality and pleasure.
SCHEDULE
Our artfully crafted schedule is designed to create space for you to explore the topics that are raised, interact with other participants while allowing you the freedom to select in or out of any of the sessions. This retreat gets to be exactly what you need in the moment.
Friday @
8:00 PM
Session 1: Welcome to Fierce Empowerment
Opening: Setting the Intention
We'll embrace the sacred space as we collectively set our intentions for the transformative journey ahead. You'll meet all the other fellow fierce women and lay the foundation for a supportive and empowering community.
Connecting Souls: Sensual Icebreakers
We'll engage in playful and empowering ice breakers designed to deepen connections and create a sisterhood of support. You'll unleash your inner fire through interactive activities that celebrate your unique feminine energy.
Friday @
10:00 PM
Session 2: Bridging the Gap in Sexuality
Life is filled with changes and transitions. Daily. Weekly. Monthly. Seasonally. Yearly. Whether an unexpected flat tire, a scheduled move or simply a change in plans, as human beings, we are genetically designed to be in a continual state of growth and change.
Our power lies in embracing change and leveraging the transitions in between to create a healthy mindset. Too often, we are in such a rush to “get to the other side” of change that we miss the lessons, the experiences, and the magic that is mixed with the discomfort of change. This engaging class invites you to shift your mindset and then equips you with processes and tools to navigate transitions and come through change with strength, resilience and clarity.
Saturday @
8:00 AM
Sensual Yoga Fusion: Embodying Your Desires
Immerse yourself in a transformative yoga session that connects mind, body, and sensuality. Explore movements designed to awaken and celebrate your unique expression of femininity.
Saturday @
9:30 AM
Session 3: Recognizing & Releasing Sexual Trauma
Free Your Mind, Body, and Spirit
Energetically, sexual trauma, anything from inappropriate touching to rape, gets stuck in your sacred energy centers. It is reasonate in your body, physically and mentally, which can impact not only your sex life but also creativity and drive. Learn how to be with that trauma and successful techniques for releasing it so that you can live the life full of sensuality and intimacy that you desire.
Saturday @
11:30 AM
King's Spa Experience
Enjoy the day of wonder, discovery, and relaxation as you rejuvenate the mind and body at this traditional Korean spa. Indulge in a full-body scrub, a delightful accupreasure massage, or simply soak away your troubles in the bath house. You'll surely find a whole new YOU!
Saturday @
7:30 PM
Session 4: Sensory Integration
Reflection Circle: Sharing Your Spa Experience
Come together in a supportive circle to share and reflect on your experiences at the Kings Spa. Discuss the empowering moments, newfound sensations, and connections made during this transformative outing.
The Enneagram After Dark: Sex, Love, & Enneagram
The truth is everyone is wired a little differently and has different motivations for how they approach work, life and relationships. We explore the basics of the Enneagram model and discover the motivations and common behaviors of the 9 types of personalities found in this model.
We will explore some fascinating patterns of human behavior, such as how we all function out of a different center of intelligence (mind, body, or heart) and how we each approach sex with a different motivation in mind that will impact how we interact with our partners.
You will create a deeper awareness and understanding of yourself, first and foremost, so you can start to shift into choices that move you closer to the more, better, different you that you want in your life. As an added bonus, you will get insights and awareness around understanding your partner deeply, reduce misunderstandings and conflict, and increase sensual connection.
Saturday @
9:30 PM
Session 5: The Art of Sensual Self-Discovery
Erotica Exploration: Navigating the World of Pleasure
Delve into the world of erotica with expert insights and discussions on how sensual literature and art can empower your sexual journey. Discover the art of self-expression through creative exploration.
Unlocking Pleasure: Adult Toys & Techniques
Explore the world of adult toys with expert guidance on choosing, using, and integrating them into your sensual journey. Break free from taboos and embrace the tools that can enhance pleasure and self-discovery.
Sunday @
8:00 AM
Mind-Body Yoga
Awaken your chakras, get the energy flowing, and connect with your breath in this slow-flow vinyasa designed to bring mindfulness and ease into your practice.
Sunday @
9 AM
Session 6: Manifesting Your Dreamy Intimate Life
See it, Feel it, HAVE IT!
How do you bring it all together and create the sensual, sexual, and intimate relationships you desire. We unlock your superpowers that lie in the subconscious to gain clarity on what you want and teach you how to leverage that power to manifest exactly what you desire.
Celebrating your Fierceness
Reflect on the journey, share personal insights, and celebrate the growth and empowerment achieved. Partake in the closing ritual to solidify your commitment to living a passionate, sensual life.
Sunday @
10:30 AM
Session 7: Explore Tantra
Introductory Workshop to Tantric Intimacy
Learn the essential steps to bring lasting intimacy into your life in a safe (no-nudity) and respectful environment. You will be introduced to cutting-edge love principles and inspiring tantric intimacy practices. Theses practices will transform the way you look at love, engage in making love and experience yourself sexually and spiritually.
LIMITED TIME OFFER!
Embarking on a journey of self-discovery and sensuality should be as accessible as it is empowering. At Stella Winston Life™, we've crafted pricing that invites you to embrace your empowerment with open arms.
Sisterhood Discount: Bring a friend along on this empowering journey, and both of you will receive an additional 15% discount off your registration. Because the power of sisterhood is meant to be shared, and there's nothing more transformative than experiencing this adventure together.
Payment in full reflected below. 3-Pay Plans also available.
*Girlfriend Package receives a 15% discount
STANDARD
Single $1100
Luxury Accomodations
Breakfast & Dinner
Expert-led Discovery Sessions
Sensual Yoga
Passion Without Apology Book
PREMIUM
Single $1399
...all Standard Features, PLUS...
Champagne & Roses Welcome
Sensual Toy Box
GIRLFRIEND PACKAGE
$2519*
...all Premium Features, PLUS...
Upgrade to King Suite
*Two Adults
**Only 1 Available**
OUR SPEAKERS
Driven by their own passion for discovery and growth, our speakers are delighted to guide you on this path of awakening and empowerment.
NICOLE SAFLEY
YOUR HOST & FIERCE WOMEN'S COACH
As a coach and wife to John for 27 years, Nicole is passionate about helping women explore and deepen their sensual selves and consequently, their relationships.


APRIL STEVENSON
LIFE COACH, SPEAKER & AUTHOR
April is committed to helping others find new meaning, purpose and focus for their lives. She is raw, real, authentic and full of life. When she speaks she shares her enthusiasm and lust for life with everyone.

DR. ELSBETH MEUTH
CO-FOUNDER, TANTRA NOVA INSTITUTE
Elsbeth Meuth, Ed.D., was born and raised in Germany and holds a doctorate in education and a master’s degree in music. She is an ontological design coach and a certified Tantra Yoga teacher.

KIMBER DEAN
YOGA INSTRUCTOR & CHEF
Chef Kimber it the owner and chef of Happy Food Catering. She is the author of Happy Baking & Desserts, the co-founder of Happiness Drinks and much more. She will connect your sensuality with a delightful culinary experience.

MOR YELVINGTON
Energy Healer & Intimacy Coach
Mor has been an energy healer for 18 years. She is mom of 3 little ones, happily married, and eager to create a world where every woman feels seen, safe, and free in her body.
CHICAGO, IL
APRIL 19-21, 2024
RETREAT RESOURCES
Prepare yourself for this uniquely moving experience by indulging in some of the materials that have impacted Nicole's decision to deepen her own sexual intimacy and pivot her career toward sexology. Take time to discover what these practitioners say about sex, love, and intimacy as you prepare to join us in Chicago for this amazing sexual intimacy retreat!

Sex, Love & Goop
Bing watch this series! You'll discover how these courageous couples deepen their sexual intimacy with one another through multiple modalities. This is the series that inspired Nicole to create this sexual intimacy retreat.
Ask A Sex Coach w/Heather Shannon
Certified Sex Therapist helping you let go of shame & stigma so you can embrace your authentic sexual self. More pleasure, more connection, more freedom to be you. She has tons of freebies on her website too.

Sexplanations with Dr. Doe
Sexplanations is sexedutainment for the universe hosted by Dr. Lindsey Doe, doctor of human sexuality and clinical sexologist. She shares bursts of incredible knowledge while inspiring the audience to stay curious. In the last 10 years, she has covered over 440 topics from pelvic exam to masturbation and everything in between.
*Note: These are curated resources that have supported us in growth in this area. None of those featured are associated or sponsoring our retreat.
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Frequently Asked Questions
At StellaWinstonLife™, we are women creating learning, growth and curated experiences for women. We recognize this is a juicy topic and may be an area that is new for you to explore. Our aim is to provide you with enough information to make you feel completely comfortable in your exploration and deepening of your sexuality and intimacy.
If you have further question, email info@iamfiercehq.com
Will I be naked during the whole retreat?
No...well, mostly NO.
One of the first questions we got was around the setup of the retreat and basically was this a nudist activity. NOPE. At the spa, as you might expect, the bathhouse is the only place you'll be naked. While this is optional, it is an integral part of the retreat. In this setting, it is female only. You'll be robed except where you choose, in the hot tub, whirlpool and sauna.
Is this event co-ed?
Our Passionate Without Apology Retreat is Female Only
This particular retreat is female-only. You'll be in a safe space surrounded by like-minded women. While we love our male partners, this is designed for you to feel comfortable exploring new territory. Bring your girlfriends for a fun, girls weekend to share the experience with those closest to you.
What all is included in the retreat?
This is an all inclusive weekend retreat
Your package includes accommodation in an exquisite VRBO in central Chicago, a chef-prepared, gourmet dinner Friday and Saturday nights, light breakfast Saturday and Sunday mornings, and sensual gourmet snacks. You'll be responsible for your transportation and lunch at the spa.
We will be staying in a luxurious condo. Note that rooms are queen beds and you'll be sharing that space with another guest, slumber party style. If that is not comfortable, for you, let us know and you can upgrade to your own bed for $280.
What is the attire for the weekend?
Dress comfortable in whatever makes you feel sensual
We invite you to focus on comfort and sensuality. I'm thinking yoga pants and a comfy top. You may choose a maxi dress or shorts. It's totally up to you. We'll be lounging around the condo when we aren't at the spa. On Saturday night, we'll have a fun, pajama party, so wear whatever you like here. I'll likely find some sexy lingerie with a silky robe. Most importantly, just be you!
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